Finally. A household app that lifts the mental load.
Stop carrying the household in your head. Dame puts tasks, chores, and schedules in one place - synced instantly with whoever needs to know. No nagging. No guilt.
Created by Vince - a forgetful dad who never checked the synced calendar. He needed a system he'd actually use, so he built one: Domestic Assistant for Managing Everything - DAME.
“Finally an app my husband actually checks.”
- Sarah, mom of 3
Imagine this
The coach just texted - practice time changed.
You easily update
Soccer practice moved to 4pm? Change it in Dame. That's it.
Everyone knows instantly
Your partner, the babysitter, grandma - they see it right away.
No one drops the ball
Pickup happens on time. No "I thought you were getting them" moments.
No phone tag. No sticky notes. No "I had no idea."
Imagine this
The coach just texted - practice time changed.
You easily update
Soccer practice moved to 4pm? Change it in Dame. That's it.
Everyone knows instantly
Your partner, the babysitter, grandma - they see it right away.
No one drops the ball
Pickup happens on time. No "I thought you were getting them" moments.
No phone tag. No sticky notes. No "I had no idea."
It's Sunday night and trash day is tomorrow.
Dame knows whose turn it is
Trash day tomorrow? Intelligent chore rotation means no more "I thought it was your turn" debates.
The right person gets reminded
No nagging from roommates - Dame sends a friendly nudge to whoever's up.
It just gets done
Bins go out. No passive-aggressive texts. Everyone stays friends.
No debates. No resentment. Just fair rotation.
You're both at work and someone needs to pick up the prescription.
One of you adds it to Dame
Pharmacy called - prescription's ready. Add the task in seconds.
You both see it
Whoever's free can grab it. No need to coordinate over text.
Done
Mark it complete. Your partner knows instantly. Move on with your day.
No "did you get it?" texts. No duplicated trips. Just teamwork.
Sound familiar?
The mental load is real. Dame gets it.
One of you carries the household in your head - remembering, reminding, tracking. The other means well but can't keep up. Calendars here, lists there, notes somewhere else. No wonder the mental load lands on one person.
Tired of juggling five different apps?
Dame puts tasks, chores, and schedules under one roof. Everything your household needs - in one calm place.
Tired of "I didn't know" moments?
Everyone sees the same thing, instantly. No more chasing down updates or wondering who did what.
Exhausted from deciding what to tackle first?
Dame shows you what matters now - in order. No pressure, no guilt. Just clarity on what needs doing next.
Four pillars of calm coordination
Built for real households, not idealized ones
One System
Everything in one place
Tasks here, chores there, calendars somewhere else, grocery lists in a group chat. Sound familiar? Dame brings it all under one roof - tasks, chores, events, and lists. No more juggling five different apps just to keep your household running. Everything your family needs to stay coordinated, finally in one place.
Stop juggling five different apps
Unified Household
Everyone sees the same thing
When you check something off, everyone sees it instantly. No more "I didn't know you already did that" moments. Dame works offline too - everything catches up the moment you're back online. And with one-tap visibility, you control who sees what. Some things are household-wide, some are just for you or select people.
No more 'I didn't know you already did that'
Flow
Dame decides what to do next
Here's the magic: Flow is built on research into how our brains actually handle responsibilities - decision fatigue, cognitive load, what makes tasks feel manageable versus overwhelming. Dame coordinates tasks, chores, and events, then shows you what matters now, in order. You don't have to figure out what to tackle first. You don't have to decide. Dame does it for you.
Zero decision fatigue - just trust the list
Calm by Design
No nagging, no guilt, no gamification
Dame doesn't guilt you into productivity or gamify your chores with points and streaks. When it's time to rotate who does what, Fair Shares handles it fairly - based on who actually wants to do what, not forced equality. Dame suggests, helps, coordinates. But never pressures.
Help over judgment - always
Everything else your household needs
Everything in one place
Recurring Tasks
Never forget to take out the trash again. Set it once - weekly, monthly, every third Tuesday - and Dame handles the rest. Maintenance, refills - autopilot.
Notes & Lists
Your partner adds milk while you're at the store - it just appears. Grocery lists, packing lists, gift ideas, projects - all shared and synced in real time.
Saved Items
That restaurant your friend mentioned? Saved. The show your colleague recommended? Saved. Places to visit, movies to watch - icons fetched automatically.
Recipe Simplifier
Turn any recipe into clear, simple steps. No more scrolling through life stories. Paste a URL, get prep, ingredients, steps, and timing - nothing else.
Everyone stays in sync
Household Chat
Quick questions that don't need a task. "Running late" or "grabbing dinner" - a dedicated space for household chatter, separate from your main texts.
Multi-Household
Kids of divorce, co-parents, snowbirds, college students - Dame gets it. Manage schedules across multiple homes without the usual coordination headaches.
Web Access
Add tasks from your work computer during lunch - your boss doesn't have to know. Dame works everywhere you do: phone, desktop, tablet, any browser.
Generous Storage
Photos, videos, documents - keep them in Dame at full quality. No compression, no downgrading. Your memories and files, safe and always accessible.
Help without pressure
Sitter Screen
No more drawn-out hand-offs. WiFi passwords, bedtime routines, feeding schedules, emergency contacts, medications - sitters see it all instantly.
Pet Portal
Give your pets their own profile - birthdays, vet appointments, vaccinations, favorite photos. Assign them to tasks and chores. Your furry family, organized.
Document Vault
Insurance cards, passports, prescriptions - stored with end-to-end encryption. Share with household or keep private. Always accessible, always secure.
Need A Hand
Overwhelmed? Tap 'Need a Hand' and your household sees you're at capacity. Others can claim your tasks - no guilt, no asking, just quiet support.
A household app you can trust
Built by a family, for families
Dame was born from a dad who kept dropping the ball. We use it every day with our own family - we know what works because we live it.
Your data stays yours
No ads, no data selling, no creepy profiling. We make money from subscriptions, not from harvesting your family's information.
End-to-end encrypted
Chat messages, document vaults, sensitive info - encrypted so only your household can read them. Not even we can see it.
Ready to get everyone on the same page?
Couples, families, roommates - and yes, the pets too.
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